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Posted by: FFU« on: June 25, 2012, 12:28:18 AM »Maybe they just "appear" like small raisins! You know what they say. Even a 747 looks small if its landing in the Grand Canyon! Hey Brown sugahlover, maybe Beyonce was referring to me! If so, thanks for fielding the hit! Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 24, 2012, 11:02:34 PM »Yeah, pretty much! Everybody I know that has a problem with IR relationships, whether they are black, white or whatever have come to that conclusion by way of racism! It's okay to have a preference for mating with someone of your own race! That's your comfort zone, and I'm fine with that, but it's not okay to criticize someone else for their choice to marry someone of a different ethnic persuasion! THAT is their choice and they are entitled to it! a blk person that solely has a preference for white mates has the issue. theres no problem with dating IR, the problem is when u put a certain race on a pedestal. why couldnt that anon say it was refreshing to see a blk woman in a happy relationship as opposed to its refreshing to see a bw with a white dude? she defintely was looking for validation. lastly, u dont know wat the hell racism is Posted by: Brown sugahlover« on: June 24, 2012, 09:05:20 PM »Yeah, pretty much! Everybody I know that has a problem with IR relationships, whether they are black, white or whatever have come to that conclusion by way of racism! It's okay to have a preference for mating with someone of your own race! That's your comfort zone, and I'm fine with that, but it's not okay to criticize someone else for their choice to marry someone of a different ethnic persuasion! THAT is their choice and they are entitled to it!
Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 24, 2012, 08:54:03 PM »anonymous guest: Posted by: Brown sugahlover« on: June 24, 2012, 08:49:21 PM »anonymous guest: Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: June 24, 2012, 07:26:34 PM »yeah but u didn't have to make the comments so personal attack the argument, not the person all you had to do was respond back "i'm not racist i just think x,y,z" there was no need to carry it that far it's not the first time we've had personal , rude comments from you directed at other posters. learn to debate the person without doing below the belt, personal attacks on people.
Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 24, 2012, 05:13:44 PM »beyonce i understand you were upset that brownsugarlover called you a racist, i don't believe ur a racist you just like black men and you're protective of them for whatever reason, but brownsugah is a genuinely nice guy, you two can respect each other even if you don't see eye to eye not protective of blk men. i just call out hypocrisy...i have to be fair brownsugah can d*e Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: June 24, 2012, 01:01:22 AM »beyonce i understand you were upset that brownsugarlover called you a racist, i don't believe ur a racist you just like black men and you're protective of them for whatever reason, but brownsugah is a genuinely nice guy, you two can respect each other even if you don't see eye to eye
Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 23, 2012, 08:24:35 PM »he guys let's keep it civil here... its hard to keep it civil with an old white man who doesnt have a clue about racial issues involving blks Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: June 23, 2012, 05:30:11 PM »he guys let's keep it civil here...
Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 23, 2012, 05:25:15 PM »Hey Bey! if it makes u feel better, ur p*nis is still tiny bye Posted by: Brown sugahlover« on: June 23, 2012, 03:13:52 PM »Hey Bey!
Maybe they just "appear" like small raisins! You know what they say. Even a 747 looks small if its landing in the Grand Canyon!  Posted by: Beyonce« on: June 23, 2012, 02:12:47 PM »I think that eliminating anybody as a prospect for love just because of race is racist itself! I know black guys that will proclaim flat out that they will only date w/w and totally exclude black women! They come up with some BS reason for their prejudice! I've had relationships with a myriad of different ethnic women, (black, white, hispanic and asian) and I've found something beautiful in all of them! well of course ur old azz only sees and reads what u want to see and read. u always shy a way from topics dealing with white privilege and racism. what sane blk woman would want to date an old azz white dude who got ballz that look and are the same size as raisins? answer that brown sugahlover Posted by: Brown sugahlover« on: June 23, 2012, 09:20:07 AM »I think that eliminating anybody as a prospect for love just because of race is racist itself! I know black guys that will proclaim flat out that they will only date w/w and totally exclude black women! They come up with some BS reason for their prejudice! I've had relationships with a myriad of different ethnic women, (black, white, hispanic and asian) and I've found something beautiful in all of them!
Keeping an open mind is not worship, on the contrary, it is a sign of intelligence! As I have stated numerously in past contributions, there are some racists on here (Hi Bey!) that see anytopic dealing with IR dating as white man worship! Just out of curiousity, when the same people see a BM/WW couple do they consider that black man worship? People magazine recently named Beyonce' Knowles as the most beautiful woman in the world! It's foolish to think that there aren't any white men that find black women attractive! Chocolate my dear? Welcome to flirting 101. 1. A man is not going to approach a woman and make small talk unless he's interested in her! We just won't put ourselves out there unless we think it's worth our while! 2. If we compliment you (in any way) we are flirting! Listen for phrases such as "God, you smell nice!" or "Your hair looks good" or "You have the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen!" Guys will never tell you any of this stuff unless we are interested and want to make a good impression on you! If no guy has ever approached you and said any thing similar to that, you are not meeting the right type of guys! Sweetie, I have flirted with you numerous times online but I don't think you ever took it seriously! 3. Older guys like to flirt with young pretty girls! We don't think anything is neccessarily going to come of it, but we want you to know (and reassure ourselves) we still have game! 4. Flirting should always be respectfull, telling a girl she has a nice a*s or a great set of melons is "NOT" flirting! It's vulgar and will not get you anywhere with any woman that has a modicum of class! Posted by: FFU« on: June 23, 2012, 06:32:07 AM »Something I hadn't thought of. Thanks, CS, for the insight. I'll just keep on smiling.
Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: June 22, 2012, 02:24:43 PM »you get dirty looks fro black women for smiling or are you getting surprised looks? there is a difference, i know i would probably be caught off guard if a white guy was making a pass at me or smiling at me because it's so out of the ordinary. honestly, i'm not truly sure when a white guy is flirting or not it's hard to tell so maybe you're getting the brush off because the black women are unsure how to react or something
Posted by: FFU« on: June 22, 2012, 03:02:35 AM »All women of all races, sizes and shapes are beautiful, period, as long as they are of good character. Having said that, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which leads us to have our preferences. However, we shouldn't let our preferences blind us from the first point, as well as, inner beauty. For true love can come in any shape or size or colour.
I was reminded of this night when last night I watched Cinderella, the musical, starring Brandy (such a stunning young lady) and Paulo Montalban (spelling?) It was the first time I saw this movie and I bawled like a baby and I'm a 53 year old WM. The tears, I think, are in part from a breakdown in my own IR marriage after 20 years; my wife is South American mulatta (spelling?). I was directed to this sight by a youtube video that encouraged white guys to express their opinion about black women. I've had my preferences over the years - I've had serious relationships (as well as casual dates) with white, East Indian, Oriental women before meeting my wife. I guess now that it's time to move on, my preference now seems to be black women. While I see a lot of younger IR couples (all races), I still get a lot of dirty looks when I smile at black women. I guess my generation is still hanging on to the old barriers - so unfortunate. Last point: white guys are no different than men of any other race. Most of us can be inconsiderate pigs, although hopefully that too is changing with the younger generations. Peace to all. Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: June 19, 2012, 02:10:55 PM »bringing back to the top
Posted by: Chocolatesmoothie« on: March 14, 2012, 01:05:43 PM »and at the end of the day actions speak louder than words there may be a small group of black women online who talk about white men, but at the end of the day Black men date out and marry out far more and as many of us have stated on here we don't know any black women offline who exclusively date outside the race, that seems to be done more often by Black men.
so, this nonsense has to stop. nonsense about black women wanting white men to put them on a pedestal. Posted by: joeclyde« on: March 14, 2012, 07:30:25 AM »Anyway, I wanted to apologize to JoeClyde for giving the dismissive "whatever" in my initial response to you. You probably didn't think much of it, but I felt bad about it. God forgives. I don't. Seriously No Problem. lol | Work From Home Without Website Or Product
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