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I'd also like to add that I am really f*cking sick of the kind of racist victim-blaming that black women are subjected to in these kinds of discussions. Why can't whites ever take any f*cking personal responsibility for their racism? They're always trying to direct blame from themselves towards blacks. Not enough men for black women to have relationships with? It must be because black women are close-minded, not because white and other non-black men have been conditioned by racism to not touch black women with a ten-foot pole. The sad thing is that lots of blacks accept this bullshit and unfairly blame their own people for problems that aren't totally their fault.
Quote from: Tyrannosaurus on March 03, 2011, 12:29:38 PMI'd also like to add that I am really f*cking sick of the kind of racist victim-blaming that black women are subjected to in these kinds of discussions. Why can't whites ever take any f*cking personal responsibility for their racism? They're always trying to direct blame from themselves towards blacks. Not enough men for black women to have relationships with? It must be because black women are close-minded, not because white and other non-black men have been conditioned by racism to not touch black women with a ten-foot pole. The sad thing is that lots of blacks accept this bullshit and unfairly blame their own people for problems that aren't totally their fault.thank you so much for your defense of black women.
Why are there so many wm/aw couples? A two year study by economist Ray Fisman found that:"We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices."You can cross reference this with the posting here: http://www.dawnali.com/lovinmysistas/index.php?topic=2351.0We're a black woman demonstrates that she gets tons of attention from white men. Of course, she had no intention of dating a white man, she created a fake profile just to amuse herself and boost her ego.So, we can ask ourselves the real question. Why are there so few bw/wm couples? Because black women discriminate against white men. It's that simple. They make excuses, like white men are evil, slave owners, and have ice cold p*nises. But the truth is most of them cannot get over their racist prejudices.If skin color is a consideration in dating, if you feel alone because no black men pay attention to you, if you can't get over some mental imagery of slavery, then you are the problem. It's not that white men aren't willing to give everyone an equal opportunity, it's you that chooses to reject such advances.
i think black women who like men (meaning are not lesbians) fall into 5 major categories:1. low self esteem desperate black women who will take ANY man. she has no standards at all. this woman will be with ANY man of ANY race. she just wants a man in her life at all times.2. this group is similar to group # 1, but the difference is they ONLY like NON black men. however, they have no standards for the non black man. ANY non black man will do, and preferably white. this type of woman not only has low self esteem, but has a hate for the black race as well. you will usually find that she wants to quickly have a baby with any non black man that will have sex with her. her self esteem is built around having "light skin babies with good hair."3. this group is open to all races of men, but has standards. she doesn't care about his race, as much as she care about the man meeting her standards. she usually does not have a huge preference for any race of man. she just wants a good man that she is attracted to.4. this group is similar to group 3; however, they have more of a preference for black men, but are willing to be with other races of men. she however, has higher standards for other races of men than she has for black men. that is mainly because interracial dating is not the easiest thing to do, and feels that her family and friends need to understand why she is with a race of man other than a black man. the non black man will need to be very good looking or "rich" (aka has a NICE car and nice house).5. this group is nothing but a black man group. this woman will ONLY date/marry a black man. there is nothing anyone can say or do to change her mind.i believe numbers 3 and 4 are the most common. however, i think most white men believe most black women fall into the categories of either 1 or 2 (because they think we are desperate aka EASY), or number 5 because they automatically assume we hate white men. furthermore, when a number 3 or 4 woman rejects them, they can easily assume that she's a number 5, but she isn't.
Dawn I am sorry but I can not really see how you can have it both ways. The supposition that white men are not running over like a house on fire to date black women and black women placing barriers up to that are directly related. I do agree with you on individual preference and that people are not attracted to every man / women they meet. That is just human chemistry no fixing that, but placing barriers in the way prevents those same men from stepping forward. Speaking as a man , I can positively tell you no man regardless of color will jump through excessive hoops to date any woman, she either has to be sending the signal that she wants his attention or she is sending the signal she is not interested. Men that get the brush off might try a couple of times before they go onto greener pastures, but they are not going to sit around and pine for unobtanium.
I'm going to agree with Chocolate on the fact that white men are not banging down doors to get with black women.
I understand Sal. I am not saying that black women are perfect or that it's ALL white men's fault. I think some black women do need to open up a bit more and I think alot of black women have a defense mechanism that makes them short or not respond well to white men. But I also think its partially because white men don't pursue black women like they should if they want a different response. So yes I think black women should open up a bit more, but I still think its a man's job to pursue.
well white men need to be more aggressive and maybe white men should try to date and have sex with black women more...
if they aren't looking for sex, then they're looking for friendship...because last i checked most men at some point whether in a serious or casual relaitonship are looking for sex...
the man is supposed to be the pursuer...white men who like black women need to pursue black women...and then we'll open up once more white men start openly pursuing black women probably...
Quote from: Chocolatesmoothie on February 26, 2011, 06:55:04 PMi'm sure most white men have warm pensies...besides a p*nis is a p*nis is a p*nis...who really cares at the end of the day...as long as the guy respects you and it feels good who cares...LOLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Regarding the topic at hand, I do think that many black women are closed off when it comes to dating interracially. Most do want a black "king" to be with. But at the same time, it's not as if white men are falling over themselves to date black women. White men are not being rejected left and right by black women who have a mental block keeping them from getting somewhere with a white (non-black) man. But I can believe that the few white men who approach black women are rejected a lot based on their race.
i'm sure most white men have warm pensies...besides a p*nis is a p*nis is a p*nis...who really cares at the end of the day...as long as the guy respects you and it feels good who cares...
umm no because i never said white men had cold p*nises i was quoting someone else. I never said I didn't like white men...
wel then why are you referencing my comments and talking about cold p*nises if u weren't directing this at me?
and the woman who put the ad on craigslist likes to date white men read her other articles, she wasn't just amusing herself or boosting her ego
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