Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Low Self Esteem

[Dawn]

Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Low Self Esteem -

i'm very interested in this subject, but don't have time to listen to the videos right now.  i started listening to one, but they are too long.  i got to the part where he said he hates his big head (which is the very beginning of the "i hate how i look" video).  i will say this, i have a big head too, and i hate my big head, but hey, you have to learn how to live with what you have.  stop dwelling on the things that you think are negatives, and dwell on the positives.  just because you have a big head doesn't mean it's negative.

I never thought of you as having a big head. Ya know I have NEVER in my life heard someone say that they don't like this person or that person because of their head size. 


If women are not attracted to him, IM 100% that it has nothing to do with the size of his head Unless he is talking about the "OTHER"
 head lol 

i agree, i don't think a person's real head size...lol...is going to be the make it or break it of if a person is going to be interested in you or not. 

[RyRy]

Sorry Ryry.  I just didn't want to post it because he's sharing something so personal and in the end he even says that he doesn't want to see this particular vid taken and put on other channels. 

I know he made it public, but i just want to respect his wishes....im sure he wouldn't appreciate it being here.   (And he'd be able to see that it's posted here and probably take it down anyway.)

Its ok, I think I found the videos.


Thus far he just seems to be another person who blames his issues on everyone but himself. Not going to get very far in life with that mentaility.

[Vashti Lebron]

Sorry Ryry.  I just didn't want to post it because he's sharing something so personal and in the end he even says that he doesn't want to see this particular vid taken and put on other channels. 

I know he made it public, but i just want to respect his wishes....im sure he wouldn't appreciate it being here.   (And he'd be able to see that it's posted here and probably take it down anyway.)

[RyRy]

Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Low Self Esteem -

i'm very interested in this subject, but don't have time to listen to the videos right now.  i started listening to one, but they are too long.  i got to the part where he said he hates his big head (which is the very beginning of the "i hate how i look" video).  i will say this, i have a big head too, and i hate my big head, but hey, you have to learn how to live with what you have.  stop dwelling on the things that you think are negatives, and dwell on the positives.  just because you have a big head doesn't mean it's negative.

I never thought of you as having a big head. Ya know I have NEVER in my life heard someone say that they don't like this person or that person because of their head size. 


If women are not attracted to him, IM 100% that it has nothing to do with the size of his head Unless he is talking about the "OTHER"
 head lol 

[RyRy]

Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Social Issues



The videos are by ManOfVision, who specializes in speaking ill of today's black women. 

He recently did a video talking about how he feels ugly and that black women are responsible for why he's so mentally scarred. 

I'm not going to put the exact video here because it is kind of personal and he probably wouldn't appreciate it. 

Here's his channel

http://www.youtube.com/user/TheMANofVISION

Watch "I Hate My Physical Appearance" and then "Re: Stop Blaming Black Women For Your Low Self Esteem."

Can you see where he's coming from?

You should have posted a link. I hated that I spent 5 minutes searching through videos trying to find it. By the way I still haven't

[Dawn]

that's a good point fmc!

[FMC!]

and another thing...i'm tired of people being able to separate "thugs" from black men and "white tr*sh" from white people, BUT when it comes to black WOMEN it becomes simply "black women" are like this and that.  somehow we black women are the reason for everyone's problem!  for some reason too many people can't separate black women into good and bad.  we get lumped into one pot as we are all bad.   notice how he can separate thuggish black men from black men, and doesn't blame black men in general for beating him up.  he can't see that the black girls who beat him up in school were the same as the black boys that he called thugs...they were thugs too.

finally, the people he was describing are school bullies and they are in every single school across the country.  white kids get bullied too by other white kids.  doesn't he hear that every day in the news?!  the difference is that the bullying is not blamed on ALL white girls/women and ALL white boy/men.  the bullying is blamed on those INDIVIDUAL people that are involved.

black women are the mf mules of the world.

"The Black female slave had to nurse her child, nurse the masters child, cook, clean, and be the help mate of the Black man all while maintaining her sense of self. Time has evolved and we are now in the 21st century and the Black woman is still EVERYTHING to EVERYONE."  http://thefeministgriote.com/?p=20

Dawn:

Blackmen who still don't have a clue need to chill with the nonsense.  It's annoying and it's not manly, men don't whine like children.  All the bs that blackwomen have to deal with from other races, and ya'll have to put up with the same crap from blackmen...Unacceptable!  Some blackmen don't wanna be real with blackwomen, because, that means they can't bulls**t their way thru life anymore.  As long as they're acting like circus clowns, they don't have to do any heavy lifting.  Blackmen can skate by with s*x, sports, and hip-hop.  Other men have to get real jobs to get by in life, we wanna play with ballz to make a living.  Groupthink is killing us as blackmen, true freedom starts with the individual...Always!!!

Blackstone
The Black Eagles

I have to disagree with the part about individualism being freedom. I think individualism is part of the problem with black men and why men like these make these kinds of videos. Black men are too busy being individuals not having any type of compassion for their fellow brothers. That's how you can have us kill each other in cold blood over stupid crap. What i think you take in as being groupthink is simply brainwashing. The problem isn't in trying to operate as a group but trying to as a group follow right along with every image and portrayal the media puts out there for us.

[Arcane]

Okay, I get it. You weren't popular with the girls and got teased. It happens and it's a part of life. Been down that road too. Now get over it and be the best you that you can be. What's fearful is the rage I hear in this content. He sounds dangerous and like he genuinely resents people with this type of hate video. I honestly hope he gets the attention he deserves before it's too late and he hurts someone. Maybe even a relative.

[Blackstone]

and another thing...i'm tired of people being able to separate "thugs" from black men and "white tr*sh" from white people, BUT when it comes to black WOMEN it becomes simply "black women" are like this and that.  somehow we black women are the reason for everyone's problem!  for some reason too many people can't separate black women into good and bad.  we get lumped into one pot as we are all bad.   notice how he can separate thuggish black men from black men, and doesn't blame black men in general for beating him up.  he can't see that the black girls who beat him up in school were the same as the black boys that he called thugs...they were thugs too.

finally, the people he was describing are school bullies and they are in every single school across the country.  white kids get bullied too by other white kids.  doesn't he hear that every day in the news?!  the difference is that the bullying is not blamed on ALL white girls/women and ALL white boy/men.  the bullying is blamed on those INDIVIDUAL people that are involved.

black women are the mf mules of the world.

"The Black female slave had to nurse her child, nurse the masters child, cook, clean, and be the help mate of the Black man all while maintaining her sense of self. Time has evolved and we are now in the 21st century and the Black woman is still EVERYTHING to EVERYONE."  http://thefeministgriote.com/?p=20

Dawn:

Blackmen who still don't have a clue need to chill with the nonsense.  It's annoying and it's not manly, men don't whine like children.  All the bs that blackwomen have to deal with from other races, and ya'll have to put up with the same crap from blackmen...Unacceptable!  Some blackmen don't wanna be real with blackwomen, because, that means they can't bulls**t their way thru life anymore.  As long as they're acting like circus clowns, they don't have to do any heavy lifting.  Blackmen can skate by with sex, sports, and hip-hop.  Other men have to get real jobs to get by in life, we wanna play with ballz to make a living.  Groupthink is killing us as blackmen, true freedom starts with the individual...Always!!!

Blackstone
The Black Eagles

[Dawn]

and another thing...i'm tired of people being able to separate "thugs" from black men and "white tr*sh" from white people, BUT when it comes to black WOMEN it becomes simply "black women" are like this and that.  somehow we black women are the reason for everyone's problem!  for some reason too many people can't separate black women into good and bad.  we get lumped into one pot as we are all bad.   notice how he can separate thuggish black men from black men, and doesn't blame black men in general for beating him up.  he can't see that the black girls who beat him up in school were the same as the black boys that he called thugs...they were thugs too.

finally, the people he was describing are school bullies and they are in every single school across the country.  white kids get bullied too by other white kids.  doesn't he hear that every day in the news?!  the difference is that the bullying is not blamed on ALL white girls/women and ALL white boy/men.  the bullying is blamed on those INDIVIDUAL people that are involved.

black women are the mf mules of the world.

"The Black female slave had to nurse her child, nurse the masters child, cook, clean, and be the help mate of the Black man all while maintaining her sense of self. Time has evolved and we are now in the 21st century and the Black woman is still EVERYTHING to EVERYONE."  http://thefeministgriote.com/?p=20

[Dawn]

But I believe his biggest issue is that he doesn't have a strong support group.  Family, Friends or therapist.

i listened to the entire first video and i agree with joeclyde.

[Dawn]

Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Low Self Esteem -

i'm very interested in this subject, but don't have time to listen to the videos right now.  i started listening to one, but they are too long.  i got to the part where he said he hates his big head (which is the very beginning of the "i hate how i look" video).  i will say this, i have a big head too, and i hate my big head, but hey, you have to learn how to live with what you have.  stop dwelling on the things that you think are negatives, and dwell on the positives.  just because you have a big head doesn't mean it's negative.

[Chocolatesmoothie]

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[joeclyde]

But I believe his biggest issue is that he doesn't have a strong support group.  Family, Friends or therapist.

[Vashti Lebron]

Black Man Blames Black Women for his Body Image and Social Issues



The videos are by ManOfVision, who specializes in speaking ill of today's black women. 

He recently did a video talking about how he feels ugly and that black women are responsible for why he's so mentally scarred. 

I'm not going to put the exact video here because it is kind of personal and he probably wouldn't appreciate it. 

Here's his channel

http://www.youtube.com/user/TheMANofVISION

Watch "I Hate My Physical Appearance" and then "Re: Stop Blaming Black Women For Your Low Self Esteem."

Can you see where he's coming from?